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Problems An Only Child Can Relate To

Rohan Kadu
Being an only child means being the center of attention to all the affection showered by your parents. There is no need to share toys with siblings, nor compromise on dividing your mom's cooked special dish with your brother(s) or sister(s). But it may not be so hunky-dory always, being an only child.
Peanut butter and jelly is like the older, more serious brother to egg salad sandwich. I’m an only child, so I eat both with incredible sadness. -- Jarod Kintz
Everything Being Handed Out on a Silver Platter
As an only child, excessive pampering can hinder independence and responsibility. For instance, demanding and receiving the latest video game just because a peer has it.

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The damage done by this kind of pampering is felt in the long run, as you may always turn to your parents for whatever your needs may be.
Not Having a Sibling to Socialize With
Playing alone can be fun, but sharing brings joy. Siblings offer companionship, while being an only child may lead to loneliness.
Being in the Continuous Spotlight of Parental Supervision
Parents may exert pressure on the only child for academic and social success, relying solely on them for their hopes.

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Parents tend to be over-protective of a single child, and may overwhelm them with attention.
Acting As a Judge When Your Parents Fight
When the parents of an only child get into an argument, the child is most often than not roped in as an arbiter to the fight.
Feeling Guilty About Moving Out
From diaper days to sports triumphs, parents have witnessed your growth. They've catered to your every need, making saying goodbye difficult—they cherish you as their only child.